I think the hardest part for me in my quest to be a writer is the whole time management thing. I work full time, have two wonderful children with their assorted activities, an amazing husband and a household to manage. Sound familiar? I'm sure there are others our there just like me, at least I hope there are:-). When to write, when to do laundry and when to do anything else extra that may come up from time to time (try everyday!)-these are some of the dilemma's I face on a daily basis. Forget about working out! Unfortunately, that's the one thing to get neglected. I don't have time for everything.
What to do?
I hate New Year's resolutions, but this year I focused on making a schedule.
A typical day in the life of the Romantic Writing Diva circa 2013:
6:00am: Wake up (Ugh!)
7:00am: Get the kids on the bus (take a deep breath)
8:00am: Head to work (already late!)
8:30am-5:30pm: Work (again Ugh!)
5:45pm: Pick up kids.
6:00pm: Maybe get in a work out if I'm lucky but often drive the kids to an activity of sorts.
7:30pm: Dinner (too late, I know!)
9:00pm: Get kids to bed (take deep breath again;-0)
9:30pm: Start writing (Finally!)
11:00pm: Got to bed and start the entire process all over again.
I'm sure you can see a lot of problems with the above scenario. Where does poor, beloved hubby fit in? Lucky for me, he's extremely supportive but still. He needs me too and often I scrap the writing unless he's watching Duck Dynasty or some other man show. Sometimes, I write during basketball practice or while the kids are playing at friends' houses. Alas, my writing proceeds at a snail's pace:-(. Such is the life though and I wouldn't trade it for anything in this world. One day, my kids will be grown and I never want to look back and wish I'd spent more time with them. I can't do without my day job, at least for now, and the house will always be there waiting to be cleaned. Someday, I tell myself, I will be able to spend my days (hopefully sitting at a beach somewhere) writing to my heart's content.
Someday, but not yet!
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